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After a social media post where Asbel Kiprop blamed a woman for wrecking his family and career, friends and mentors intervened helping him refocus seek support and rebuild his life.
A man is often judged by how he faces his battles whether they are on the field, in the boardroom or within himself.
For Asbel Kiprop, Olympic gold medalist and three-time world champion, life was initially a straight sprint to greatness—a journey of triumphs, gold medals and untold success.
However, when the cheers faded, Kiprop found himself confronted by challenges far more daunting than any he had faced on the track.
In 2018, Kiprop's world came crashing down with a doping scandal that shocked the athletics world.
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12:45 - 08.11.2024
'I celebrate the day I stopped drinking'- How an Olympic champion fought to reclaim his life beyond the podium
The battle men face with finding purpose beyond achievement takes center stage in one Olympic champion’s journey, revealing the silent struggles athletes endure after retirement and a powerful fight for redemption and sobriety.
His name, once revered, was suddenly associated with disgrace and scandal as the Athletics Integrity Unit (AIU) imposed a four-year ban after a positive test for the blood-boosting drug EPO.
“I did not know what he was talking about. He said media was reporting that I had been banned for doping. I developed a running stomach. I was shaking…speechless...My heart felt like someone had plucked it," he recalled in a past interview with The Standard.
The news broke him in a way he could never have anticipated, triggering a spiral of sleepless nights, isolation and bitterness as he fought to reclaim his reputation.
The societal expectations placed on Kiprop, like many men, shaped his journey.
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As a world-class athlete with a clean record and a respected status in his community the fall from grace was brutal.
Despite his accomplishments, he suddenly felt alone, misunderstood and scrutinized by a world that once cheered him on.
“People I thought knew me were not standing with me. I got very bitter. I wanted someone who would understand my pain; of how I had trained so hard and now I am banned,” he confesses.
It is a sentiment many men can resonate with—the feeling of isolation when life’s challenges intensify and the difficulty of finding true allies in a world where showing vulnerability is often seen as weakness.
In his darkest moments, Kiprop was left grappling not only with the scandal but also with the cost of fame. His career had come with privileges: financial success, fame and adulation from fans.
Yet, fame’s allure had drawn him into a whirlwind of distractions and poor choices, leaving him exposed to criticisms that ranged from accusations of promiscuity to allegations of reckless behavior.
Kiprop admits, “I made some mistakes in life, and I have always taken the consequences.”
For years, he found solace in the familiar: rigorous training, the support of fans, and, in his downtime, friendships that seemed unbreakable. But the scandal unveiled a new reality.
Friendships dissolved, his reputation crumbled and he found himself wrestling with 'depression'.
His struggles, like those of many men, were not immediately visible to the public eye and Kiprop’s cry for help went unheard until a social media post alarmed his followers.
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In a raw moment, he hinted at desperation, expressing his pain in a message that prompted intervention from senior officials.
For Kiprop, it was a call to address his pain—a step many men struggle to take.
Now 35, Kiprop is working to regain his place in Kenyan athletics, setting his sights on the World Athletics Championships in 2025.
Kiprop’s message for men facing setbacks in their careers, relationships, or mental well-being is clear: a setback does not define one’s worth. Instead, it is a test of character and resolve.
“I want to start small and win for my employers, the Kenya Police, who diligently stood by me all the four years,” he says in an interview with RFI.
“It is going to be a hard time but… I want to post good times and progressively go up the ladder and qualify to represent Kenya again.”
This season, Kiprop returned to competition at the National Police Service Track and Field Championships, where he won his 1500m heat—a modest yet meaningful step in his quest for redemption.
His performance signals a new beginning for a man determined to rise again not as the prodigious young star he once was but as a seasoned athlete bearing the lessons of both victory and defeat.
In today’s world, it is crucial that we continue to address the mental health challenges men face, encouraging them to speak out, seek help, and support each other in their journeys.
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